They were definitely interpreted as rules. This was made evident by Alyssa writing on the list I had so painstakingly created with cute little clip art images, "Follow the rules. It's Fun! I love rules!" Anyway, she appreciates order which leads us to an assignment she had at school a couple of weeks ago...
She presented her speech to us and I was impressed, it was so "Alyssa" with her high regard for rules and structure in the classroom (you can read her little notecards below).
Thankfully, the more we talked about it, I realized she didn't take their laughter personally and she wasn't hurt by it as much as she was irritated. She said that she and one other girl were the only ones who took the assignment seriously and that the kids were making campaign promises about bringing in big screen TVs and video games and having (2) two hour long recesses each day. She was appalled by those ideas, and asked me why she always has to be the serious one in her class. I told her she didn't have to be...she chose to be, and I was very proud of her ideas of what would make a good class president and the hard work she put into the assignment.
The fun of navigating through the fifth grade world ~ and I'm sure it doesn't get any less complicated from here. :-)
3 comments:
Well good for her for not taking it personally! I think you did the right thing by not mentioning anything before the speech. it's good for her to stay true to herself, and then learn to have the confidence to not let others get to her.
You sure have a couple of amazing young girls on your hands ... you're doing such a great job with them Jess. Alyssa sounds like she has a great head on her shoulders ... wish the world were full of girls just like her! (but unfortunately, it's not.) Wish we lived closer Jess ... our girls would have so much fun together!
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